Cultural Awareness

“Breaking the Ice” in Britain

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What is the most difficult thing for an overseas student in Britain? Many will say that it is “breaking the ice” with British people.

Unlike Americans who are open and friendly, British are reserved. They are quiet  people, don’t like introding on another person’s personal space, and value privacy very much. They are not very ‘generous’ with theis smiles. In Indonesia, friendliness is expressed by smiles. You are always surrounded by people who do not hesitate to give you big smiles.

Yet, they are some topics that can almost guarantee success in opening conversation with the British people. One common topic is talking about the weather. If you say, “It’s freezing (very cold) outside,” followed by “winter came too early this year, “this will usually elicit at least a smile from another person. You may hear, “what is the weather like in youe country?” To which you can reply, “Always warm and usually sunny”. The British are often envious of people who come from places with pleasant weather.

When the sun does actually appear, people are tempted to stay outside. They use the fine weather as an excuse to abandon their work. “It’s too nice to stay inside” is the typical explanation. 

Footbal (soccer) and cricket are very popular in Britain and these are popular conversation topics. There are always plenty of things to say about these sports concerning the teams, players, and matches.

Reserved as they may seem, the British are very hospitable.  When you by them a drink, they will insist on paying for the next. Making friend or friends among British people during the first week is usually impossible. You need time to understand what they are saying; they don’t always speak with standard pronounciation. While Indonesians and other foreigners have usually trained their ears (listening comprehension) to standard pronounciation.

Adapted from: Look Ahead An English Course 3